If people are talking to others in a particular way and they’re not getting the results they want, it’s probably how they talk to people.
If someone cut you in line how would you respond?
Aggressive: Do you always make a habit of cutting in front of someone else?
Passive: That’s ok, stay there.
Passive-Aggressive: That’s ok, cut in front of me even though I was here first.
Assertive: Excuse me, the line is back there.
I shut people off when they say things like “Educate yourself” or if they talk to me like that. I tend to say things back like: “If you’re the one who is supposed to be the teacher, why are you asking questions?” I don’t know who they think they are and who they think they’re talking to when they speak like that.
I hear what people are saying about the president and other things, but because they’re childish and they insult anyone that merely disagrees with them, I cannot support people who aren’t respectful of how others think.
It’s like I have to have their opinion or else what I say doesn’t matter to them.
If that’s the case then, I still stick by what I believe in and I won’t allow people to use me for a vote if they don’t care why I think the way I do.
I’m not a programmed robot. I don’t repeat lines said to me by the TV/media or by the president.
If people think they can fool me and that I’ll believe whatever the media says, they’ll be in for a real surprise. I’m not as gullible as half of the United States who are going into mass hysteria over made up lies by the media.
I’m interested in reading some blogs and was wondering if there are any other like minded individuals like me. What’s good on WordPress?
Even if I don’t agree with people on things, as long as people are respectful about the differences I am willing to get to know other bloggers.
Too many people have been disrespectful toward me for disagreeing with them when they couldn’t care less to understand how or why I support and think the way I do. They just fly off the handle with insults which has caused me to not want to make more friends if people are going to behave that way.
I have my beliefs and I don’t change my beliefs for anyone. And so far, no one has given me any good reason why I should change any of my beliefs.
I’m looking to connect with people who can:
- have mature conversations
- are polite/respectful
- People who do as they say
- People who can admit when they’re wrong after they’ve been presented undeniable facts
- People who can apologize when they’ve done something wrong to someone.
I’ve often noticed that many people will say one thing and then do another or that they will never apologize to someone when they’ve hurt someone – I don’t need those types of people in my life.
I’m looking to connect with people who are looking to have personal growth on their journey of becoming better people than we were the day before and just growing, maturing, getting rid of any of our bad habits.
I don’t need toxic energy around me.
I’d like to remain positive about things even if it seems hopeless sometimes.
It’s always great to vent about situations to get things off one’s chest however, my current goal is trying not to hold grudges against people and letting bygones be bygones and focusing on the people in my life who are treating me right and who do appreciate me.
Thanks for understanding and I look forward to getting to know others on here.